
Many people have a desperate yearning to find true love, that will eventually lead to marriage. The beauty and excitement of getting married is amazing, especially for women. However, most people never really examine all of the aspects that are needed to effectively make a marriage successful.
There should be a lot of personal self-reflection done before committing yourself to a marriage. Where some people go wrong, is that they expect others to bring miraculous qualities to the table, that they can’t produce themselves. Do not hold others to standards that you are incapable of manifesting or implementing on your own.
Never expect another person to fully complete you or make you happy. You must find an inner peace and acceptance within yourself, before you can allow someone else to fully contribute to your happiness. I have a question for you, do you even know what will truly make you happy? Sometimes we are our own worst critic. Let go of the negativity. Bind up low self-esteem, disappointments, failures and everything that’s hindering your progression. You must love yourself FIRST, before you can allow anyone to effectively love you!
These are a few questions that you should ask yourself before getting married.
These are only a few questions to consider when preparing yourself for marriage. So, again I ask you this last question, are you ready for marriage?
-Ashley Monique